Continued from Part 2 Our first touch. I’m holding her hand. It’s taken us several sessions to get here - just the right amount of time. We’re leaving the heady world of language and entering the bodily realm of touch. I feel [...]
...continued from Part 1 “Well, your hands or feet are usually a good place to start,” I say. I always start there. Hands are what we usually use to reach out and connect to others, so they’re usually a safe place and [...]
“Would you like to try receiving some sensual touch?” I ask her. She closes her eyes to consider the question. She’s sitting very erect, definitely not lounging, on the couch across from me. The outline of her face is softened by the [...]
Everyone has a collection of stories about their intimate life. Some happy, some painful, some old, some current. These stories are alive inside of us. They have incredible power to shape how we perceive our world, how we feel and how we [...]
What is Loving Presence? I refer to the term Loving Presence on my site a lot, and it’s the cornerstone of my work, an explanation is in order. Loving Presence is a particular state of mind that I cultivate and maintain during [...]
When I’m doing sex and intimacy coaching with women, especially those in the realm of healing, my experience cautions me to move slowly. Almost every woman I’ve worked with has been hurt by someone close to her. There are very good reasons [...]
When you come for sex and intimacy coaching, it’s my pleasure to make our relationship all about you! What does that mean? And how is it different from what you’d find in a normal relationship? In a normal relationship you’re always putting [...]
